Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts
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Wednesday, June 30, 2021

The Jewish Trinity that Took Down the World-Part 2-Freud

 

The Jewish Trinity that Took Down the World

Marx-Freud-Einstein


For the link to the video of my presentation, click here:

https://youtu.be/o5YWFtMOOQE

Part 2  June 26 2021

Intro to Freud:

The next great iconoclast- and with far less blood as an outcome, but still, the great disrupter of human society- Sigmund Freud.

I will confess that I am more sympathetic to Freud than to Marx. He never turned his back on us and never denied us.

Play:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c93u9JfxtCE&list=PLxjc3h0xSwvO8NHB_dzR7dnXfzCzc-6wm&index=9

Equus on Broadway - Extracts A few extracts from the amazing production of Equus on Broadway with Richard Griffiths and Daniel Radcliffe.

 

 I open with  a clip from a play, Equus,( also film by Sidney Lumet)  as an example of the impact of Freud on the arts.

The horse, in this story, represents both the object of desire and the overwhelming guilt that comes with it. The horse must be blinded as an act of defense against the conscience.

It is reminiscent of one of Freud’s first cases studies, Little Hans, of a youngster who has been obsessed with seeing the sex organ of a male horse. It is this account that leads Freud to his theory of the Oedipal complex.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigmund_Freud#/media/File:Sigmund_Freud,_by_Max_Halberstadt_(cropped).jpg


Freud with his signature cigar ”Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar”.( A popular quote related to me by my Talmud professor, who had grown up in Vienna and had attended Freud’s lectures).

Freud was born a Jew and remained identified as a Jew, even if a very unreligious one, all his life. Family from Galicia, he was born in Moravia ( now Czech) mid 1800’s.

He started out in medicine, as a researcher in a famous French clinic under Charcot. He then began to explore hypnosis. We can say, that in the beginning, he engaged in some very weird observations and approaches. There was a fascination with the act of , to say delicately, self-pleasuring. With one of his colleagues, he went down the rabbit hole theory that the nose was the seat of all problems and engaged in surgery of the nasal passages. Then, there was his discovery that” Things go better with Coke” and prescribed it to a friend to get him off of morphine addiction, until he discovered that his friend now had a cocaine addiction, which, in turn, cured Freud of his own fondness for coke (powdered, not fizzy).

There are many false starts on the way to great ideas. We all know that.

In a nutshell, we should all be familiar with the idea that, at our birth, we are one bundle of never ending desire, the libido, or, commonly termed, the “Id” (It, in Latin). As we go on in life, we form the executive part of ourselves, the “ego”, (I) that must satisfy the id yet navigate the real world. Over and above the ego, then, there arises the “ superego” ( the self above), the sense of being judged, of being held accountable for the failings of the ego to subdue the id. It is this constant warfare inside the human psyche that drives our personal life. You are also familiar with his concept of the Oedipal Complex, in which the toddler desires the mother and needs to destroy the father to do so. The most powerful of the drives in this battle is the sexual drive.

Oedipus and the Sphinx


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For people still under the impact of Victorian mores, where chair legs had skirts out on them, this emphasis on human sexuality as the main factor in our eternal dissatisfaction, or as he would call it, “Civilization and its Discontents”- was earth -shaking. Freud wouldn’t even allow his wife to read the novel “ Tom Jones”. Marx had placed economics as the great immovable mover. Freud now placed the sex drive  as the great immovable mover.  

You are also familiar with his cure, of psychoanalysis, of the long, drawn out process of reaching into the depths of repressed memories and dreams, to find that one trauma from infancy that was undermining ones ability for “ lieben und arbeiten”- to love and work.

Freud’s language has become part of common discourse:



https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/7f/FREUD%27S_SOFA.jpeg Freud’s famous couch

Penis envy as his explanation for the problem of women ( with its counterpart, for men, by his feminist follower, Karen Horney, womb envy).

Oedipal Complex- Jung’s counterpart-Elektra complex.

Anal retentive       Latency     Repression     Sublimation     Transference   Catharsis

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What was the implication of all this?

He undermined the idea that we, as human beings, had full rational control over our feelings, thoughts, and actions.

I go back, again to my father’s essay. He himself was influenced by Freud’s erstwhile adherent, then, and chief competitor in the field, Alfred Adler, who served as mentor to his youth group in Vienna:

“This is the fatalism of the subconscious, be it of the individual, according to Freud, or the collective, according to Jung.  According to Freud, the function of conscious thought in human endeavor is limited.  Past events are forcefully drowned into the subconscious which functions despite a controlling censor and forms our lives. Freud's individual subconscious is supplemented by Jung through a collective sub-conscious, which stems from   prehistoric strata in the evolution of our souls. This determines our mental bearing.  In contrast with this un - and -sub - consciousness, our conscious knowledge is of little bearing. It is not the super-conscious, but the sub-conscious which has the power to shape the destiny of people and to give direction to the tendencies of one's life-formation.

            Indeed  the trap of fatalism is so varied and tightly wound that it leaves absolutely no room for action on the part of human will and consciousness.”

There was something messianic in this vison. There was, for Freud, a way out of the compulsion of sexual guilt and that would come from confronting the demon directly, through psychoanalysis. Freud would redeem humanity from the emotional forces bearing down on it, and he would be aided by his Apostles, his first coterie of great figures like Jung, Adler, and more.

Did Freud succeed? In one sense, no. His theories are more often prevalent in literature or the arts, much less so in psychology today. [My friend, Dr. Hy Malinek, a forensic psychologist who has testified frequently in Federal cases, differs on this; he assures me that Freud is still ,” in my mind, the cornerstone of psychodynamic formulations and there is no other theory of personality that came close to  its level of integration of mind-body or offer  a theory of human development and psychopathology that "checks" so true.” I accept this, and admit the influence of my undergraduate department, which was heavily behaviorist in orientation! ] The long-drawn out process of psychoanalysis, which required hours and hours of lying on the analyst’s couch has become financially unviable in an age when insurance covers, at best, 10 sessions with a therapist with an Master’s degree, or drowning one’s problems in prescription meds. The training of a professional psychoanalyst is also very rigorous, and it was originally open only to MDs, who had to go lengthy psychoanalysis themselves. This ,too, greatly limited the access to practitioners.

The head of my psychology department at my university would poke fun at clinical psychology-“ voodoo”, he called it. Behavioral conditioning from one end, and drug therapy for a gamut of behavioral symptoms from the other, have crowded out much of Freud’s practice. Furthermore, from the aspect of science of the mind, even as Freud himself actually hoped, it is impossible to identify any particular brain structure or function with any of his concepts.

In one sense, though, he stands correct- as much as we have gone through the era of free-love a century ago, or the make-love-not war-ethos of 50 years ago, human sexuality, especially in the issue of gender identity is now front and center of our culture wars. As we have reduced the barriers to sexual expression, we have created even newer emotional demons. Issues of pedophilia, for example, which shows resistance to any treatment, or the incel ( involuntary celibate) movement, or the whole issue of gender identity today shows how intractable the sex drive is over our lives.

Freud also acted as a spur to the development of therapy of all kinds, either through him directly, or in reaction to. His colleague, Jung, emphasized the idea of a collective consciousness, for example, or the idea that we carry in ourselves, as male, or female, our opposites, animus/anima, and the concept of introvert/extrovert . His other colleague, Alfred Adler, who rejected the primacy of the sex drive,  gave us concepts as inferiority complex, drive for aggression, “individual psychology”( examining the total person in his/her environment).( Our friend, Dr Vladimir Melamed is now New Center for Psychoanalysis, Los Angeles, Director of Research and Archival Department. http://ncp-la.info/ Research and Archival work in the History and Philosophy of the Science of Psychoanalysis)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What drove Freud?

Here is one  event that shaped his drive to remake the world:

His father Jacob told Sigmund, then 12, about the time in Tysmenitz when a gentile had crossed his path on the pavement and had knocked his hat into the gutter jeering after him, “Jew, get off the pavement.” “What did you do?” the indignant Sigmund asked his father. Jacob replied, “I stepped into the gutter and picked up my cap.” From this bitter little memory, the adult Freud was to date his disillusion with his father, and the birth of one of his most persistent fantasies, his identification with Hannibal, the Semitic warrior king who wrought vengeance on the Roman oppressors of his people. (https://www.nybooks.com/articles/1986/06/12/the-jewish-freud/)

 

How to understand his Jewishness?

“ Sigmund Freud always affirmed his Jewish identity, although he was nev­er able to quite define its components, only a "clear consciousness of an inner identity, the familiarity of the same psychological structures," as quoted by Rozenblit in the book under review, hereafter cited as The Jewish World of Sigmund Freud. Yet this "godless," "infidel Jew's" protestations and ambivalence regard­ing the Jewish and all other religions notwithstanding, there seems to be no doubt about the impact of his early education and Jewish family envi­ronment, his father Jakob having been a Talmud scholar. Jonathan Rosen, paraphrasing Harold Bloom, recently remarked, "To understand Freud .. . you had to understand the rabbis" (quoted in Herschthal, 2011, pp. 25-26). Indeed, the core of Freud's psychoanalytic principles, the search for meanings beyond and beneath the manifest words and behaviors, is rooted in Judaism.”

https://guilfordjournals.com/doi/abs/10.1521/prev.2011.98.6.893?journalCode=prev

We can add to this the milieu of Viennese Jewry. The great bulk were Jews who had settled in from the newly conquered Austrian regions of western Ukraine ( Galicia). Freud’s family originated in Buczacz, Agnon’s home city. The Chasidic ethos, which was  the background of these Jews, was much more open to the world of inner feelings and imagination. So, if Marx’s style was purely materialistic/rational based, typical of German and northern Polish and Lithuanian Jews, Freud’s world was tempered by stories of Rebbe Nachman and other Chasidic masters, for whom the realm of the subconscious was very important.

 

Jewish influences on Freud:

“ He always described his father’s background as Hasidic, and his mother was raised traditionally Jewish. Though by the time he was growing up the family had partially assimilated, Freud acknowledged how influenced he was by Jewish thought, and the mystical tradition in particular.

“David Bakan, in his 1958 book, Sigmund Freud and the Jewish Mystical Tradition showed that Freud was familiar with, and interested in Kabbalah. Bakan advanced the idea that Freud’s psychoanalysis was a secularization of Jewish mysticism.

“According to Langman and Dana Beth Wasserman (1990), Freud’s The Interpretation of Dreams was based on interpretive methods used to understand dreams in the Talmud . The aspects of Freudian dream psychology that seemed perhaps shocking to the gentile public were already part of Jewish text: symbolism, word play, enactment of taboos, and numerology.

“Psychoanalysis, as it then developed into a standardized practice, was dominated by Jewish men; …, “the analysts were aware of their Jewishness and frequently maintained a sense of Jewish purpose and solidarity.”

https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/judaism-and-psychology/  Jessica Kraft

 

 

Freud’s open identification with the Jewish community:

Although Freud set himself up as the great iconoclast, setting out to smash the religious structure that Moses had built ( Moses and Monotheism). He was nevertheless always aware of anti-semitism around him ( he  had to flee Vienna from the Nazis) and he was a proud member of the Bnai Brith in Vienna, then and there, open only by invitation to a select few, dedicated to an ethical society on the basis of Judaism.



https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Obraz_symboliczny_bielskiej_lo%C5%BCy_B%27nai_B%27rith_%22Austria%22.jpg

In 1926, when Freud's lodge brothers celebrated his seventieth birthday, illness kept him from attending the celebration, but he wrote to them:

What bound me to Judaism was, I must confess, not belief and not national pride ... Other considerations ... made the attractiveness of Judaism and Jews irresistible ... Because I was a Jew I found myself free from many prejudices which limited others in the use of their intellect, and being a Jew, I was prepared to enter opposition and to renounce agreement with the "compact majority."

https://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/sigmund-freud-judaic-treasures

 

Here are some examples of classic Jewish concepts that may have impacted Freud.

 

Quite possible that the tripartite division of the soul was influenced by the Jewish concept of yetzer hara, human desire, especially sexual, and yetzer ha tov, the equally powerful drive to do that which is right and good, and the self-caught in between. Oy li meyitzri, oyli emyotzri. Woe to me from my passions, woe to me from my Creator.( Berakhot 61a) ( I will call it the Id versus the Yud and the Yid is in the middle!).איד-ייד-יוד

 

1)    Jews were freer about human sexuality than were Christians.

Talmudic tale of the student who crept into the teacher’s bedroom to learn how the teacher engaged in sex ”: You are like someone who has never eaten before? “ The teacher protests” This is not derekh eretz- the student replies- Torah hi ulilmod ani tzarich. This is Torah, and I need to learn! ( Berakhot 62a)

Chasidic lore contains the same practice of students peeking in on the rebbe.

 

2)    On the value of the Yetzer Hara- the sexual urge- Described as “ Tov” in the rabbinic interpretation of creation of adam. Vayyetzer- He created him with the two instincts- to good and to evil, and both are blessed “ki Tov.”

On the idea of sublimation—classic example- someone obsessed with blood becomes a life saving surgeon. Rare to find absolute prohibitions on passion and desire- in Jewish sources - Engage in positive action-study of Torah

 Talmud Bavli Kidushin 30 2

Teaching of R Ishmael- If the disgusting one attacks you, drag him with you to the house of study- If it is stone, it will be crushed, if it is iron, it will crack open.

3)    Accommodate the desire—The “ captive woman”-Deut- delaying, rather than denying desire. Ishah yafat toar- Yetzer hara Ein Yaakov, Kiddushin 1:8

4)    The Torah is speaking regarding the Yetzer Hara- that it is better that the children of Israel eat of improper meat that has been kosher-slaughtered, than of improper meat that is a nevelah, a corpse.

 

Midrash Tanchuma Buber, Shmini 12:1

[(Lev. 11:2:) THESE ARE THE CREATURES THAT YOU MAY EAT.] The Holy One said: Whatever I have forbidden you from having, I have permitted you to have < something > that corresponds to . . . I have forbidden you the flesh of swine; I have permitted you the tongue of a fish with the name shibbuta, which resembles swine.. . . I have forbidden you < another > man's wife; I have permitted you a beautiful woman, as stated [(in Deut. 21:11–12): AND WHEN YOU SEE AMONG THE CAPTIVES A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WHOM YOU DESIRE TO TAKE FOR A WIFE, < YOU SHALL BRING HER INTO YOUR HOUSE

Finally- the relation of the pious Jew to his rebbe was similar to that of the patient to his therapist- Unlike the priest, who provides absolution from sin by confession, the rebbe served as counselor and advisor.


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Shown here, the Baal Shem of London, a Kabbalist healer of the early 1700's, a prototype of the modern analyst and something of a celebrity in Lonodn in his day. His own hallmark was recording his dreams in detail.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baal_Shem#/media/File:Falckon.jpg

Thursday, November 12, 2020

Shuvah and Tshuvah-You can always make a U Turn

 

Shuvah and Tshuvah-You can always make a U Turn




2020

Kol Nidre

            I never was enthralled at the idea of having a bumper sticker on my car. Afterall, why would I want to mess up the clean look of the bumper, especially if I just got my car through the car wash? I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve, so why would I put my thoughts out there for the whole world. But it’s a free country, which is great, people can say what they like, as long as they don’t incite to hatred and violence.

            But when we are stuck in traffic, we can’t help but read what’s on other people’s minds. Politics, today for sure, some, just vote for types, but some, aggressive, with images of weapons. Then, it seems, the most popular for sale are those that are basically, dirty jokes, but there are a few that a useable for a Kol Nidre, like:

Fueled by Recycled Dinosaurs

If I passed you on the right, you’re in the wrong lane.

I used to be cool      

I’m retired-go around me!

One bumper sticker did catch my attention, as a Rabbi, because we are always looking for good material:

            “If you are heading in the wrong direction, God allows you to make a U-turn."

            I couldn't have thought of a better slogan for this season, because if I take the word" Teshuvah", the slogan word of this season, the word U-turn is probably the best translation for it.

            Can we really make a u-turn in life? If I do it on the street, I may get a ticket? Can I make a u-turn if life, and not only not get a ticket, but be praised for it?

            There is an old quip, recorded by one of Rashi’s grandsons in the tosafot--There is a statement in the Talmud" Everything is in the hands of heaven--hakol biyday shamayim- hutz meyirat shamayim-except for the fear of heaven" The commentator adds--Everything is in the hands of heaven, except for hot and cold.

            The commentary then continues—you can open the window if it’s hot, you can light a fire if it’s cold.

            What great philosophy is this?

            That whatever happens to us, fortune, wealth, health, success--all that may be in the hands of heaven, all that may be beyond us, yet there is one thing we can do--If it is too hot, we can open a window, and if it is too cold, we can light a fire.

            It is profound. We go through life complaining about everything, and none of it, we claim, none of it is our doing.  

            Oh No! The sage tried to tell us—it’s not just the simple task of opening a window or lighting a fire, changing the thermostat. It is a metaphor for all of life itself. You can open a window in life, you can light a fire in your hearts, and you can make a U-turn in life.

            Life is hard, and we are sometime tempted to throw up our hands and say, in the Yiddish, es ist bashert--it is fated- it had to be- and thereby, we give up. The word Mazel is a reference to that--what happens to us is the result of mazel, --we translate as luck, but it means a constellation of stars, simply a term borrowed from astrology. It goes back to the belief that all that befalls us has been dictated by the stars long before we were born.

            Even the Talmud says" Hakol taluy bemazal- afilu sefer torah baheichal--All depends on the stars, on fortune, even the Torah scroll in the ark.! How can that be? When you have a well-established synagogue, there are many scrolls, and some scrolls just have all the luck------they get read while others are ignored.

            This is a great idea--I never have to take the blame for anything. It's all my mazel.

            Modern intellectual theory, what we have all learned in high school and college, has thrown out the word “mazal”, or “fate”. It has replaced it with the word “determinism”. Words of four or more syllables always sound more sophisticated.

 

            Hakol taluy baDNA--Everything depends on our DNA. This is the newest fashion--our behavior is determined by our genetic composition--patient or irritable, quick or slow, honest or dishonest, it is all a matter of genetic makeup. It's not my fault. I was born that way.

             Then, we have the excuse of hakol taluy bakalkalah-- everything is in the hands of socio- economics. It is not my fault.

            I was born into the wrong ethnic group—I was born black, I was born white, I was born brown—or the economic grouping—I was born in the 99%, or the newest one, I was born in the 1% and so never learned life.

            We say, Hakol taluy ba psychologiah-- everything depends on psychology, on environment and upbringing.

            The newest thing today is to blame your family. My family was dysfunctional, it’s not my fault. My mother didn't understand me as an infant, my father made me dependent, they both gave me the wrong genes. They were too protective; they didn’t protect me enough. They were too coddling; they were too strict. Too warm, so they choked, or too cold, so they froze. All that we are, all that we have been, we throw off on our past, on everything around us--just not on ourselves.

            What is the Jewish answer?

            At this season, we have the famous prayer unetaneh tokef

-- It too begins with that theme, a sad one, that we await our fate passively--mi yihyeh umi uyamut. It is very painful and poignant, Life, death, health, illness, wealth, poverty--all of these are none of our doing. It is biydey shamayim-up to heaven.

            Then we drop to the conclusion: utshuvah utefilah utsedakah maavirin et roah hagezerah

            “Repentance, prayer, and acts of righteousness avert the evil decree. “

            We can't change the laws of physics or medicine, but we can change the world around us, we can change ourselves, we can make our choices. Whatever may happen, come what may, we can change its impact, it import, its lasting effects on us.

            Ultimately, our Rabbis narrowed down the list of what is predetermined: Hakol –everything-- taluy bashamayim,- hutz me yirat shamayim--everything, in deed may be determined outside of us, but one thing, the most crucial,--only we determine--yirat shamayim--our moral and ethical, as well as spiritual values, that which ultimately define us a human beings, upon which we shape our actions- only we can control that.

            On this one fundamental question of human existence—God the Almighty- is powerless.

            An acquaintance of mine just sent me a list of sayings from the Chasidic master, Menahem Mendel of Kotzk, the Kotzker. He was known as a defender of the truth even if it challenged his faith.

Here is one that goes directly to my point.

“The essence of sin is not the sin itself. It is that a person believes that it is not in his or her power to change-that is greatest sin of all.”

            To refuse that power to change-that is the root of all sin.          

When we recognize that we shape the events around us more than the events shapes us, for good or for bad, we are the freest of the free--that choice is ours, and ours alone to make. Not our astrological signs, not our genes, nor our social class, nor our childhood can force us to make our ultimate choices. In that we find our freedom.

Now, we go one step further, and ask, to what purpose is that freedom, the freedom to choose good or evil, life or death.

Some 85 years ago, my father, Rabbi Dr William Weinberg, then still a student in rabbinical school, sat in a Nazi prison in Berlin on trumped up charges. Upon his release, he wrote a series of essays, in a Swiss Jewish newspaper placing Judaism in opposition to the intellectual trends of his day. The grounds of this essay still hold for us today. So here are some selections from his essay, The Courage of the Spirit.”.

“By all trends within our cultural system it has been an accepted thesis for decades  that all events occur independently of human will.  Little and rarely does anything result from conscious thought.  Like the apparition that vanishes at the toll of the bell to call in a new day, so all the values and ideals of mankind melt away, overpowered with unpitying might by the merciless hand of economic, biological, and historical Ananke, fate.

This was his response to that challenge:

Judaism's theory of history is activist, the Jewish ethos is a willful ethos, the Jewish religion is outspokenly a religion of will.

 

        More so, it is the spirit, the ideal, which drives history in its development, despite recurring setbacks, to even higher forms: to an ethical humane elevating of human society.  We do not deny the law of reality, which researchers have made clear, but over and above this, there is a law of the ideal; over and above the factual, there is the truth.

No, humanity is not the disturbed dream of some sleeping deity and no mad chaos wildly swirled about by a happenstance. God created the world according to plan.

He ends the essay with this quote from an ancient Jewish philosophy of history,

 "Man is called upon to be God's co-worker in the act of creation. (Mechilta, Ex. 18:13). “

            When we recognize that we have the power of the U-Turn, the power to grasp the reins of our lives, when we recognize that we are not victims of everyone and everything else, we find our freedom. When we use that freedom in shaping a better world around us, we then have found our destiny and purpose.

            May we feel that inner freedom to overcome the burden of events that we feel weigh on us so that this Yom , this Day, truly becomes on of “ Kippur”, of atonement, of “ at-one-ment”,  of cleansing, and of new ness.

Amen

A Tsadik in Pelts-Getting Wrapped Up in our Self-Righteousness


 

 

A Tsadik in Pelts--Getting Wrapped Up in our Self-Righteousness

Rosh HaShanah  2020

 Rabbi Norbert Weinberg

 

How many of you here still can speak or understand mama loshen, Yiddish?

Bear with me, then ,as I give a lesson on Yiddish language and fur coats. 

Lately, fur coats have had bad publicity. While we all love to keep warm , and the fur is smooth to the   touch, it does bother  us to think of the tsaar baaley chayim- the pain of living creatures that is involved in the making of furs.

           However, for my purpose of illustration, I want us to step back in time, over a century ago, before central heating, and before synthetics were available, to a time when a fur coat was a truly desirable and necessary garment any where north of sunny California.

           Then, in those days, it was good to be wrapped up in furs, and Jews wore furs, and dealt in furs, as well. To be wrapped in a fur was good, except, it turns out, one type of fur-wearer.

           There was a phrase for one particular fur-coat wearer--a Tsadik in Pelts.

A righteous man wrapped in  pelts, furs. This was intended as an insult. Now, keep in mind that this was before the time of PETA and all the to-do about cruelty to animals. So what could be so wrong with a righteous man who had a fur coats. Yet a Tsadik in pelts--a saint in furs-is the Yiddish nickname for a hypocrite. It's a play on words. A Tsadik  is not just a righteous man--it is also another name for  the Hebrew letter, Tzadi. The last letter in the word pelts, fur, is the letter tzadi, also called tzadik. But if you remember your aleph bet from Hebrew school days, when the letter tsadi comes at the end of  a word, it written different --it is twisted and stretched out of shape till you can't recognize it.

            The nickname  for this kind of letter at the end of a word is, in Yiddish, shlechter,  bad or wicked, because the tsadi has been stretched out, distorted, dragged down at the end, like the tsadik at the end of the word, pelts. The Tsadik in pelts is therefore , a shlechter tzadik, a wicked letter tsadik. To follow the metaphor, then, a tsadik in pelts is one who passes himself off as a righteous man, and yet, is in truth, a fraud, a hypocrite, twisted and bent out of shape.

The great Hasidic master, Rebbe Menahem Mendel of Kotzk, was a man whose  sole  passion in life was to find out the truth. He had no patience for pretense or falsity of any sort. He gave the following definition of a saint in furs:

What is the difference between a saint, tsadik, and a  saint all wrapped up in furs, a tsadik in pelts?       

On a cold winters day, when everyone else is freezing in beis medresh, the chapel and house of study, in walks the tsadik in his fur coat;he is warm and comfortable, because he is all wrapped up. He can begin to pray and study. But everyone else is still freezing cold.

On that same cold day, when everyone is freezing, in walks a real saint. He turns on the furnace, and now, everybody , including himself is warm, and all can begin to worship and study.

            Thus it is with the hypocrite who publicly wraps himself in his virtues, said the Rebbe. The biggest tallit, the largest sukkah, the loudest voice at worship---he lets everyone know how good and righteous he is, and he  warms his own soul, but no one else's.

The true tsadik needs  no trappings. Instead, he does his good deeds, lends a hand, opens his purse, gives a good word--in short he warms everyone's soul, as well as his own.

It is at this time of the year,our Yamim Noraim, as we come before God  to make a clean slate, of our past and to look to a better year as Jews and as decent human beings, that we wish to see ourselves as tsadikim, as righteous. We come to the synagogue with our personal  baggage of worries and troubles, we examine ourselves, we pray for ourselves. We  are introspective and, by the close of the day, as the shofar is sounded at Neilah, we have some sense of spiritual uplift, of having cleaned our souls. We can go out with a warm glow that will hold us in good  stead until the next   Rosh Hashanah rolls around.

But in so doing, we remain, a tsadik in pelts, in we remain a saint wrapped up in our own self-goodness, and we thereby have done nothing to fulfill our obligations to those around us. We are far from truly being righteous.

There is nothing new in this idea. 25 centuries ago, the prophet Isaiah observed the same problem. We will read of it in the Haftarah for Yom Kippur morning. His people come to him with the complaint--"We are such  good Jew's, they exclaim--see how we are fasting, tormenting ourselves, we are dressed in sackcloth as a sign of our  piety.

So why is it, prophet, that God doesn't answer us? Why is everything so bad for us?

                                   To this he replies, "Do you think: this is God's idea of a fast? Rather loosen the bonds of injustice, let the oppressed go free, feed the hungry, house the homeless, clothe the naked. . .           Then shall your light shine in the darkness and your gloom shall be as the noon-day'

            In short, to paraphrase the prophet's idea-- it is not what we do, each of us individually, in front of God or our neighbors that counts, but what we do for each other in front of God that counts.           

                            The entire Mahzor, the liturgy of this day hammers in the plural. We must be good to each other and for each other, and we are all mutually responsible for what happens.

                     Why do we recite our confessional tonight in the plural. 'We have sinned, we have betrayed,"? Said the Ari, the father of Jewish mysticism, Rabbi Isaac Luria," All Israel is one body and every Jew is a member of that body. Hence, there is mutual responsibility among all members." In this same sense, going back to an earlier day, the ancient sages warned us " When the community is  in trouble , do not sit back and be merry, do not sit back and say, I will eat, drink and "shalom alay nafshi"-- peace be unto me, myself , alone."

                             How do we go about, shed our fur coats, and instead, light the fires for others?

                             In a normal year, in normal times, when the economy is functioning, and the streets are quiet, we tend not to think too much of others’ pressing needs. Now, however, we recognize that our great national prosperity, while it has achieved much, still has failed so many.

                             It all comes up to the surface, now, that we have a pandemic that has come close to being pan-demonic; some have real fears, some have imagined fears, and some pretend to be blind to the fears, so we have, on the one hand, an almost total shutdown of our economy, and on the other, people partying and then bringing home the bug to old grandma and grandpa..

                             We were just short of the kind of match to trigger a fire when we had the spate killing of blacks at the hands of police, and with  the very legitimate protest, there are elements of both far  left and right that seek to edge us closer to  civil strife. So now, we have racial tension adding to our malaise.

                             There are opposing elements in political theory and sociology that set us on course for more social unrest.

                             There is the revolution of rising expectations. It is the trigger for unrest when those at the bottom have begun to move up but begin to lose patience with the slow pace of social change, and then find their way suddenly blocked.

                             In contrast, there is the fall of the petite bourgeosie, the small business owner, the middle and lower level managers, the people who had, in their own way, some measure of comfort and stability in their lives. American capitalism had kept them afloat ahead of their counterparts in most of the world-but, in times of social change, and especially economic distress, they feel themselves with the ground falling form under their feet.

                             One social strata expecting to move up, but finding its way blocked, another social strata suddenly fearing it is on its way down. So race is one aspect, economic stress, another aspect.

In tough times, people feel hateful. Frustration leads to aggression, as psychologists tell us, and it comes out in many ways- in physical violence of neighbor against neighbor, or domestic violence, or the social aggression of the Twitter and Instagram world that is the modern refuge of bitter people..

 

                              Now, to this volatile mix, we add a general social malaise that saps the inner strength of our fellows. It comes out of our national passion to be our own free and socially unfettered spirits, and no one so embodied it as my generation. So I quote, from Rolling Stone Magazine recently, this the journal of note of my fellow hippies and yippies (I date myself).

https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/political-commentary/covid-19-end-of-american-era-wade-davis-1038206/

“More than any other country, the United States in the post-war era lionized the individual . . .  mobility and personal freedom came at the expense of common purpose. . . . the family as an institution lost its grounding. By the 1960s, 40 percent of marriages were ending in divorce. Only six percent of American homes had grandparents living beneath the same roof as grandchildren; elders were abandoned to retirement homes.”

That sounds suspiciously like the gripes of right-wing Christian ministers, who have been warning about the dissolution of the family for decades—but this comes from the left, not the right.

He goes on to say that we have no meaningful communications with others on a daily basis, that we consume two-thirds of the world’s antidepressant drugs. With it, we have “the collapse of the working-class family. . . responsible in part for an opioid crisis . . . the leading cause of death for Americans under 50.”

This is a big burden- a much bigger burden than just defunding police.

Can I have my fur coat again? I think I want to wrap myself up in it and protect myself from everyone else.

 

So, how am I going to light the fires for the rest?

 

Elections can only do so much. Marching protests may feel good, but they also fade in impact, and continued unrest merely feeds the fears of most voters. That’s how my generation blew it all in 1968 and again in 1972. For those of you whose memory extends more than a few decades ago, I can only agree with an old Beatles song:

You say you want a revolution// Well, you know// We all want to change the world

But when you talk about destruction//Don't you know that you can count me out ( Beatles Revolution 1)

 

So what can we do?

 

I am going to admit- I don’t have any magic solutions. I don’t have the power to cause the sun and the moon to stand still, like Joshua.

 

So, it is all small steps that we can take.

We can get the economy going again. Go to stores, eat out, go shopping, buy American made goods, if you can find them, so that more people can begin working. I am going to say, what Rabbis are not expected to say, but “Spend.” Yes, Spend. Get people back working. Perhaps, spend your money, where possible, in minority communities.

 

Yes, give, but seek to find charities that get people up on their feet, like Jewish Free Loan . I don’t want to disparage endowments to the arts or universities,( we should all be so wealthy) but your next door neighbor, or downtown neighbor, could put it to better use.

 

Give of your time, if you can safely get out, and volunteer. Find some place where your hand can make a difference for someone. Many of you here are retirees- there are many organizations that can use you to act as “ grandparents” to children. There is no lack of openings for good helpers, especially as life gets back to normal.

           

We are not going to save all of America, but maybe we can save the small corner around us. If each of us could find a way to make one person’s life just a little better, then we are no longer the “ shlechter Tzadik, the bad Tadik, the tsadik in peltz, and instead, we become true tzadikim.

If frustration leads to aggression, maybe an act of Gemilut Hasadim, a deed of goodness and kindness, can turn it around

    

                 I want to conclude with words of reassurance by Rabbi Tarfon, who, 1800 years ago, must have felt the same challenge on himself and on his colleagues.

" Hayom Katzar ve hamelakhah merubah-- The day is short, and the labor is long. The laborers are lazy, but the reward is great, and the boss is insistent!

Lo alekhah hamelakhah ligmor. You do not have to complete the task-- v  lo atah ben horin lbatel mimeno-- but you also not free to quit the task."

                 If we wish to be truly righteous in the eyes of God, then we have to throw off our furs, our concern about ourselves, and light many fires to keep all of us warm.